How To Stop Beating Yourself Up When You Make a Mistake
Often we allow a mistake or wrong decision to negatively impact our lives long after the incidence occurred. By doing so, we end up being unable to actually enjoy the present and take advantage of new opportunities and experiences.
Dwelling over a mistake for extended periods of time can be very detrimental to your way of life. After all, our time here is limited, and each passing moment can’t be replayed or started over. It’s difficult to enjoy the newness offered in each day when your mind is constantly troubled by regret and negative self-feedback.
News Flash: You Are Human
In case you haven’t noticed, human beings are literally programmed to make mistakes. We’re not given an instruction manual at birth detailing the correct way to handle the vast array of decisions and events we experience throughout our lifetimes. Therefore, it makes no sense to go through life with the intent of being absolutely perfect.
Of course, you should strive to make the right decisions and handle situations to the best of your ability, but only with the knowledge that you will not always do so. Any mistake you end up making should not come as a total surprise but should instead serve as a reminder that you are a fallible human being, just like the billions of other people around you.
Being human is a beautiful thing. We are capable of so many emotions, creations, and discoveries. However, we’re far from perfect and mistakes are sure to happen. Always keep that in mind.FREE Checklist: How To Achieve A Mindset For Success
A great way to avoid beating yourself up over a shortcoming or wrong decision is to not always regard the situation in a negative manner. Instead, try to realize that mistakes are a mandatory part of the learning process.
Consider this, every single thing you have ever learned how to do with any level of expertise has been achieved through trial and error. This process in no way ends just because you have become an adult. For as long as you live, you’ll continue to encounter new situations.
That being said, it’s crazy to think that, as an adult, you’ll somehow be able to respond to new situations the right way from the start. In fact, if you ever reach a point in your life where you fail to make a mistake here and there, this is probably a bad sign. If nothing you do poses a challenge, this means you are at a place of stagnation.
It’s important to consider each and every mistake as a lesson that allows you to adjust, modify your actions and do better the next go around.
Change Your Perspective
Almost all of us do our best to forgive other people after they have messed up. This is especially true pertaining to the people closest to us. Sure, we may be upset and even angry for a while, but we usually don’t hold the issue over the offender’s head for long periods of time.
Ironically, we struggle more to forgive ourselves than to do the same for others. Considering this paradox, try to change your vantage point the next time you’re avoiding granting yourself forgiveness. After all, nobody is closer to you than you.
Knowing that forgiveness is a mandatory part of maintaining external relationships, you must also realize that this requirement holds true for nurturing your own mental environment.
Develop a Success Mindset & Stop Beating Yourself Up
It’s perfectly okay to stop beating yourself up over a mistake. If you don’t, it can affect your own well-being, as well as the people in your life. Successful people see failure as an opportunity to try again but with more knowledge so they can make it better.
Having a success mindset means that when you have challenges, you’ll be able to work through them with confidence and clarity. It means that when you are presented with an opportunity you’ll be able to set fears aside and take advantage of the opportunity. Download my free checklist, Cultivating A Success Mindset and start taking steps today to embrace a success mindset and watch how your business, and your life, change.